Wednesday, August 09, 2006

I lost the baby today.

I don't need to talk about it. But I don't feel like telling everyone in person - so I'm blogging.

There are 2 things in particular about this situation that really bug me.

1)I am going to be plagued with all these "if I had just done X, Y or Z, maybe the baby would have stuck" thoughts for a long long time. So please excuse my neurotic tics for the next little while.

2)Mr. Ninja drank all my fig vodka. And I could really use a stiff drink right about now.


Blogger Lynne said...


If you wanna go out for a drink, you lemme know babe.

11:34 AM

Blogger Lesley said...

Oh Deb, I am so sorry. I wish I had something I could do to make this better for you. Lots of love your way.

12:53 PM

Blogger Jaichan said...

I'm really sorry, Deb. That sucks and there's nothing else I can really say. Much love to you and yours.
When I lost the most important person in my life, I turned to bad television therapy.
But I drew the line at 'Baywatch'.

1:01 PM

Blogger FrozenExtremities said...

Big hug, that really blows. I second the TV therapy.

1:28 PM

Blogger Alison said...

Debbie, I'm so sorry. But from what you said last night about what you've been going through, it sounds like this one just wasn't meant to be. Again, I'm so, so sorry. If there's anything I can do (and even though I can't think of anything, I do mean it) just let me know.

1:45 PM

Blogger Steph said...

Chickita, I am at your beck and call. Just a word and there can be ice cream and liquor delivered to your door by a smelly bicycle messenger (that would be me). I know, I know... the prospect of seeing me in bike shorts is enough to make anyone take to the bottle. Just say the word.

3:29 PM

Blogger meegiemoo said...

I am so very sorry. =( Maybe next week's KOL should be at the Fireside. Knit therapy helped me last week. I know the situations are not the same but it might help. *hugga*

3:52 PM

Blogger Jess said...

Debbie, I am so sorry. If there is anything I can do to help you out, let me know. Lots of hugs heading your way.

10:07 PM

Blogger jak said...

Debbie, Know that you didn't do anything wrong. I too send much love your way. Thinking of you... You're in my heart.

1:50 AM

Blogger knittingwoman said...

i'm so sorry. i know it hurts so much, i have been there but really you didn't do anything to make it happen, it unfortunately just happens sometimes.

11:02 PM

Blogger Moe said...

Deb, I'm so so sorry to hear that (I tried to comment last night but blogger was down - sent you an email).

It absolutely is nothing you did or didn't do - it was the wrong place and wrong time. That doesn't make it hurt any less though. I'm thinking about you.

8:23 AM

Blogger KellyD said...

I have been there myself and know there are no words...ever. If you want to talk, please let me know.

10:08 PM


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